If I had the least notion that the events at those previous parties were an "educational one-off," I certainly had another think coming. You can't tame what's naturally wild! Besides, "In your own lounge-room, no-one can hear you scream!"
My daughter was at that age when she was discovering what her body was all about. Unfortunately, my ex was as much use as tits on a nun, so helping her through it was down to me. 'Opening a can of worms' doesn't really cover it.