Chapter 1: Explanations and Motivations

After I wrote the manual “How to Make a Sissy”, I received numerous emails asking if I could write a similar workbook on how to open a woman’s sexuality up. It seemed that many men wanted their wives to play and experiment, but they had no idea of how to go about helping and encouraging their wives’ promiscuity.

I have always responded, “I don’t know if I can write that manual because I have no real idea how to do it.”

It has finally occurred to me that I kind of do.

The following is how I moved my wife from a ‘suppressed Christian girl’ to a sexually confident BDSM switch.

Warning:As with almost any change you make, that change comes with a price. If you introduce your wife to lesbian sex, don’t be surprised when you discover you were able to do it so easily because she is a lesbian.

Also, don’t be surprised if she quickly surpasses you and becomes a ‘hot wife’, or perhaps more accurately, a ‘slut wife’.

And don’t be surprised if your marriage breaks down.

Lastly, remember that the fantasy of watching your wife being fucked by another man is awesome, but the reality can be starkly confronting. Especially when you realise the guy doing your wife is doing her way better than you and that she has cum harder with him than at any time with you.

With these warnings in mind, let’s begin the story...

My wife and I moved in together when I was twenty-two, and she was twenty-three. We had decided to live together to ‘give it a go’ for the sake of our unborn child that Vicky was carrying. Thirty-seven years later, this week, we’ve agreed to ‘give it a go’ for another year.

When I came to know her, Vicky was a good Christian girl living at home with her parents, Majors Edmond and Cheryl Booker of The Salvation Army. Ed and Cheryl were Vicky’s foster parents. Vicky was a victim of abuse and had been taken from her biological parent’s home and placed with the Bookers when she was quite young.

We were both inpatients at a mental health facility when we met. Vicky was there because she was self-harming. I was there because I had a rage episode where I blanked out and hospitalised a man I’d found in bed with my wife.

The court gave me a choice between committing myself and getting help for my anger issues or going to jail—an easy decision to make.

Vicky and I hit it off immediately and were lovers less than a week later.

At that time, Vicky and I were both married to others as neither of us had gotten our divorce yet. I had been briefly married to the woman, Mistress Eliza, described in my series ‘My Introduction to BDSM’. Vicky had married some complete tosser in the false belief he loved her.