Chapter 1: Meeting People

People are always asking me where I meet the people I date and have sex with. Although I chat a lot on the Internet, I’ve never met anyone I’ve chatted with nor do I ever intend to do so. I know this frustrates people but I’m totally open about it. Some people choose to ignore me and push for it anyways and once in a while I will lead them on but I don’t feel guilty about it - they deserve it for not respecting me in the first place.

SO to be clear ... I chat on the Internet for one reason - fun. I enjoy talking to different people and exchanging ideas, fantasies, opinions and such. It’s like the difference between playing a video game against the computer and being on-line. Interacting with other humans is always much more interesting and that’s how I feel about chatting.

So where DO I meet the people you read about in my diary? Well, here is where 99% of the people I have had sex with have come from, in the general order of success:

1) Church (you’d be AMAZED at how many people I meet there for sex)
2) Parties (just at the party, never afterwards)
3) Recommendations from my friends
4) School (well, at least back in high school and college)
5) Neighbors (including babysitting)
6) My dad’s office
7) Escorting Service (I was the escort - I wasn’t hiring anyone!
One thing they all have in common which is different from people I chat with is that NONE of them know anything whatsoever about my sexual relationships at home. I didn’t list family members above because I certainly don’t look at my parents and relatives in the same way as I do the other people I have sex with.

This leads up to another reason I don’t meet people I chat with. Although I post a diary that contains a lot of personal information and such, I figure the odds are negligible that anyone I care about will recognize us. If I were to date people from on-line then someone outside my family would have direct knowledge of who I am, where I live, etc. which is NOT something I want anyone to know who isn’t in my family and even then only a few selected ones know.