Jehoram: Blog

...and I guess I should catch you up on things.

"Our Family's Little Secret" is now finished. I don't see writing any more installments of that story.

"New Arcadia" still has another chapter to go, and another stand-alone story in the "New Arcadia" universe. The chapter will probably conclude the story because it rounds it out nicely with the MC and his wife initiating proteges into the ranks of the truly sexual elite. And Abby hasn't given us her views of what New Arcadia is all about, and gives an interview while training a fourteen-year-old boy.

You've seen that I've started a new story called "The Diplomat's Memoirs," a historical piece of a British diplomat being introduced to a sexually liberated court in Afghanistan, in the days before it was subsumed into India. Chapter 1 has been published, and it deals with the man's first night as a guest of the court. Chapters 2 and 3 have been written, and are now in the "polishing" phases. I'll publish Chapter 2 soon; it tells the story of how he deflowered one of the Sultan's household and ultimately fell in love with her. Chapter 3 describes how he brought the pair's views on sexual education to the family they raised, along with a British wife who came late into the game.

And I've also published "The Midnight Club," a story of how a woman was to an orgy by a girlfriend and ended up fucking her own father. That's Chapter 1. Chapter 2 is the girlfriend's story about how the three of them ended up in a polyamorous "marriage." Chapter 3, which I've written but not yet published, is the father's side of the story.

Sorry about this, but the new chapters of "Our Family's Little Secret" and "New Arcadia" are written but not submitted, because my editor has been ill. When she recovers and does her magic, I'll put them up.

There's one more chapter of "New Arcadia" and two more of "Secret." Be patient, because I want them to be up to the quality of their prequels.

I've added chapters three and four, and will probably close off the series with chapter five. I've taken it to the limit, I think. I don't want to end up repeating a lot of stuff that I've written before (and a scene in chapter five, recounting an oiled-up orgy, comes perilously close to the latest installment of "New Arcadia").

Have you noticed how, in my stories, the kids are usually introduced to sex in a loving way by their parents or older relatives? And it's always at the kid's request and usually involves some sort of training where they learn about what it takes to please somebody else, or be pleased by somebody else, before they themselves experience intercourse for the first time. And usually, that first fuck is marked by some sort of initiation ceremony that validates their new status as sexual adults.

Well, some people would just call that "statutory rape" and therefore bad, especially if that activity involves relatives. That's the reason that you'll find many of these stories only on this site. On some other sites, people are assumed to have no real sexual awareness until they're eighteen, and certainly can't be depicted as having sex until then.

This is because the sites have to conform to the rules of some ideal society. But in the real world, children are usually pressured into sexual relations either by their peers, who don't have a clue about what good sex is about, or by their parents, who use their parental authority to invalidate any feelings the child may have, or predatory adults who use their positions of power to claim a right to deflower them. And in most cases, the child really doesn't have much say in the matter. It's for this reason that laws against incest and underage sex are written. And the eighteen-and-up story sites try to skirt that reality by forbidding any stories at all about juvenile sex.

In my view, that's not only unrealistic but detrimental to the sexual development of the child. Wouldn't it be better for the child who reaches puberty to be gently guided toward an active and safe sex life, educated in a manner appropriate to that child's development, and protected from any attempt to put the child in a sexual situation for which they are not prepared?

That's the way it is in my stories. In the "New Arcadia" series, a child is admitted into training at the age of fourteen. All are required to be nude, so that no shame is to be associated with the naked body. They're encouraged to masturbate any time they like, so that they can learn that there's nothing wrong with enjoying and displaying their lust. And they're trained how to exact more pleasure from their own bodies, and how to pleasure other people, regardless of the sex of that person. By the age of sixteen, the girls are expected to be able to orgasm at will, and the boys are expected to control their libidos. And they learn that there's a time and a place for actual sexual intercourse, and their training culminates in a ceremony where they are initiated into adult status and allowed to pick their first fuckmates.

Another theme of my stories is that no child is ever forced into a situation where they have to have sex. It's only after they express an interest in it that the subject is brought up, and every step of the way to fucking is made with their full volition and consent. They're the ones who decide when to take the next step.

Sex is an attempt to respond to a natural urge, like thirst or hunger. But there are some ways to respond to that urge than others. You can satisfy your hunger with either a visit to a five-star restaurant, or you can go to a McDonald's. You can satisfy your thirst with a perfectly mixed Martini or a glass of muddy water. In either case, the craving is satisfied, but the degree of satisfaction and appreciation depends on the skill and training of both the preparer and consumer. Sex should fall into the same category. If you're trained in the ways of both making and taking love, the better the experience will be for you and your partner.

And the earlier that training comes, the more effective it is. Sex can be an art like singing or playing the violin, and the best performers of those arts are usually the ones who started it early in their lives and had the training they need to get really good at it.

This time, I've really doubled down on the incest. This is the first story I've written where incest is the main theme, so if it's a little overplayed (or underplayed, for that matter), please let me know.

Now I've got Jeremy's mom, dad, and sister into the game. One thing that is a common theme with my stories is that first, all the sex is consensual and, second, it's almost always the women who initiate it. Part of that is just a horndog's wish that all women would be as hot and ready for sex as the female characters in my story are. I admit that. But it's also that we men should not be perpetuating a society where men force their attentions on women by hitting on them when they don't want to be hit on, and even raping them when they think they can get away with it.

That attitude really has been poisoning the prospects for sexual relationships between men and women, or in fact for any sort of relationships. I'm a nudist, and one of the problems with that life-style is that women are far less comfortable with that than men are. They feel that they're regarded as sex objects or as targets for pickups, simply because they have chosen not to wear clothes. The result is that they simply don't go to as many nudist functions and locations as men do. And this means that club and resort owners feel that if they want a more equal balance of the sexes, they have to take measures to discourage men and encourage women, sometimes with blanket quotas for single men and sometimes for ridiculously higher admission fees for single men... sometimes as much as six times higher! So a bunch of male assholes are making it almost impossible for a truly equal nudist society, with a level playing field for nude socialization, to exist.

The only cure I can see for this is to train men not to do the sort of moronic behavior that turns off women. In my admittedly fantasy world, this happens when men turn over the keys to the women when it comes to establishing sexual liaisons, and letting them approach men when they feel comfortable doing so. And in this world, they're going to be far more ready to "put out" when they feel that they're in control. They can be just as horny as the guys are, and as ready for fucking as the guys are, because they know that they're not paying for their orgasms with a decrease in their power or their self-respect. (And you'll note that in most of my stories, the women keep themselves from becoming pregnant unless they want to be, and are careful not to catch venereal diseases.)

Unrealistic? Maybe, but not too unrealistic. And one of the perks of writing erotic fiction is we can craft the sort of world we want to live in, and maybe influence others to take a part in making that world a reality.