My Sister Makes New Friends
by Julie_and_Roger
Copyright© 2026 by Julie_and_Roger
True Story Story: This is the true story of how my sister and her husband encouraged their novice nudist friends to become full time nudists and eventually adopt it as a lifestyle.
Caution: This True Story Story contains strong sexual content, including Ma/Fa True Story Oral Sex Nudism .
INTRODUCTION
This story is compilation of four closely related episodes recording how our friends embraced nudism. In it my wife, Julie, and I are not the main characters, but we were involved in many of the events described. The two main couples provided extensive detailed input and confirmed the accuracy of the timeline, events and reported thoughts of those involved. Our special thanks go to one of the main subjects of this story, Bessie, for her insistence that we include a candid and detailed recounting of her most intimate moments, thoughts and memories. Some minor details may have been “misremembered” but, as much as possible, the events described have been verified.
My sister, Susan, and my wife, Julie, and I, Roger, have lived as committed full time nudists from early childhood. One can say that we grew up nude together and never learned to associat nudity with sexuality. We appreciate the beauties of a nude body without necessarily experiencing sexual desire. Susan’s husband, Don, a clinical psychologist, became an enthusiastic nudist during their courtship before marriage. We all practice wholesome nudity in our everyday lives and being nude is our normal state of dress at home. The four of us frequently get togeher for dinner, drinks and entertainment, often with invited guests.
In May of 2007 Susan and Don, met a new couple at a local nudist camp and invited them to dinner and drinks at their home. To round out the guest list Susan invited my wife, Julie, and me, knowing that we would bring plenty of good wine.
A HIKE IN THE HILLS
Mike and Bessie, an attractive couple in their late 40s, had recently decided to give social nudism a try. Bessie had enjoyed a few trips to Black’s Beach in San Diego, California, with an old boyfriend several years ago. Last year she had talked Mike into trying home nudity a few weekends the previous summer but didn’t pursue the lifestyle seriously. Bessie wanted to give social nudism another try but Mike did not want to visit a local beach because he was uneasy at the thought of bumping into someone he knew.
After a little convincing they decided it would be easier on Mike to try a distant nudist camp. They did an internet search, called ahead and decided to try their first nude outing on what promised to be a very slow Saturday at De Anza Springs nudist resort in the mountains 50 miles east of El Cajon, California. As luck would have it Don and Susan had decided on a hike through the giant rocks there that same Saturday, and there on one of the trails they met Mike and Bessie.
They hiked the trails together, stopping at several view points and had Mike take photos of Don and Susan with the scenic background. Mike and Bessie declined to have their photo taken. They then hiked back down to the grass area near the camp’s main building and swimming pool. There they relaxed and talked while sharing drinks and a snack lunch. Bessie was fascinated with social nudism and asked Don many questions regarding decorum and acceptable behavior at nude gatherings. Eventually, Susan suggested they could talk further and experience home social nudity at a dinner party they were planning for that Wednesday evening. Bessie, not knowing what to expect, cautiously accepted the invitation.
DINNER WITH FRIENDS
That Wednesday we arrived at Don and Susan’s home early to help with dinner preparations. As requested, we brought along four bottles of chilled Riunite Lambrusco. As we always did during warm weather, we drove there nude, our emergency shorts and T-shirts neatly folded under our seats. We were always nude at both our homes and our driveway parking areas were secluded, so there was no need to dress for the two mile drive on the quiet country road between our house and Don and Susan’s home.
Mike and Bessie, arriving right on time and dressed in their best dinner party attire, were surprised to be greeted at the door by their nude hosts. They didn’t realize that Don and Susan would already be nude, especially when expecting guests for dinner. And that for the entire evening, including dinner, they would be nude. They stepped through the door and Susan turned to introduce Julie and me, as we would be joining them for dinner.
Susan advised them that we were all going to remain nude for the evening and they were welcome to join us dressed, nude, or any level in between, as they wished. The four of us were completely nude except for the ankle socks which we wore because of the cold tile floors. Before Mike could answer Bessie indicated that they would undress by starting to unbutton her blouse. Susan showed them a small table by the door where they could place their clothing. She also handed them each a pair of ankle socks to wear for the evening. Then Julie and Susan quietly slipped back into the kitchen to complete the dinner preparations.
UNDRESSING FOR DINNER
Don knew that refocusing Mike and Bessie’s attention with questions about their drive and if would prefer to chat on the patio or in the den, would make them feel less self conscious while undressing in front of a male audience. As they talked I watched as Bessie removed her blouse and skirt, folding them neatly onto the table. She hesitated a bit then quickly removed her purple bra and matching French cut bikini panties, folded them neatly then covered them with her blouse. At the same time Mike somewhat nervously removed his jeans, then his polo shirt and blue jockey shorts. Bessie stacked his clothing neatly on the table next to her clothing, jockey shorts on top.
Bessie kicked off her flat loafer shoes, leaving them on the floor by the clothing table. She then put on the white ankle socks, each while standing on one leg. Mike removed his shoes but kept his own socks on.
Standing side by side nude, they made a very attractive nude couple. They were both average height, about 5 feet and 6 inches, and only hint of being overweight.
Mike had the typical non-nudist T-shirt and shorts tan pattern, leaving him with well-shaped, white butt. He had a neatly groomed, sandy blond crew cut. Other than a slight beer belly, his muscular body was unremarkable. His average sized circumcised penis with a larger head was surrounded by straight and sparse but unkempt light brown pubic hair. His penis didn’t hang down but curved down and forward as it rested on his plump round testicles.
Bessie’s tan pattern gave her a white torso resembling a white single piece swimsuit. She was curvy with a slightly wrinkled mommy tummy, broad hips and shapely, well proportioned legs that were topped by her plump round butt. Her pretty face was framed by her wavy chocolate-brown hair which flowed down to her shoulders. Complementing her big brown eyes and facial beauty, and highlighted by her white archetype C+ sized breasts, were her three inch round reddish brown areolas and well defined nipples. Her dark, tangled and matted pubic hair obscured her slightly large labia minora. A visible trail of pubic hair ran up to her navel.
After a few moments Bessie nervously said that they had never been nude at someone’s home and didn’t know what to do next. Don handed her a pair of small bath towels for sitting. As it was becoming cool, Bessie had elected to chat in the den, so Don led everyone to the den for relaxing drinks and talk before dinner.
SMALL TALK
We sat in the den, which opened directly into the kitchen, allowing us to include Julie and Susan in the conversation. I enjoyed watching Bessie’s butt wiggle as she spread Mike’s and her towels on the love seat for them to sit on. I sat opposite on the big sofa, leaving room on either side for Julie and Susan. Don sat on one of the recliners. Julie brought out six wine glasses and we enjoyed our first bottle of wine. As expected the conversation revolved around nude home etiquette.
Julie started by explaining that, except for Don, we had been nudists since birth and being nude was our normal state of dress at home. At Susan’s family home nudity was strongly preferred, while at Julie’s family home nudity was mandatory, so everyone was always nude. We were at each other’s homes so much that the three of us, along with Julie’s sister, Becky, had actually grown up nude together.
Julie then pointed out that our parents taught us that nudity and sexuality were separate. Unlike people whose main exposure to nudity is pornography or for sexual activity, our nudity was not a source of sexual arousal, but is our normal and comfortable state of dress. Except for the fact that we are always nude there is no difference in our home activities and behaviors than those of any textile household.
She takes issue with people who falsely think or fantasize that sex is a principal part of nudist living. We believe that the mere presence of a nude person must not be confused as some form of implied consent or invitation for sexual activity. Just like in the textile world, someone’s state of dress is only considered sexual under specific mutually agreed to conditions. Sexuality is actually defined by the participants’ seductive and provocative behaviors, not their lack of clothing. Therefore, people should be able to engage in their normal everyday activities in the nude without it being interpreted as being sexual.
LET’S EAT
Susan, fearing the conversation was turning into a lecture, announced that dinner was ready and asked the girls to help set the table and help serving. The wine complimented the lasagna. salad and garlic bread well. During dinner Don invited Mike and Bessie to share the story of their emerging journey into nudism.
Mike was an electrician for an apartment management company and worked all over San Diego County. Bessie was a receptionist at a local doctor’s office near their El Cajon home. They had met about 10 years before, Mike having recently relocated from New York. Bessie was a single mom raising two pre-teen children and working as a waitress at Denny’s. She had several failed relationships before she and Mike found each other, courted for a few months and married. They were a happy family of four until last year when Bessie’s daughter got married and her son joined the army, suddenly making them an empty nest couple.
For years Bessie had secretly wanted to try nudism social and this was their chance to try it at home. She discussed her desires with an initially reluctant Mike who agreed to try with a few nude Saturdays at home. Their back yard was not private so they had to confine their nudity to indoors. They tried doing internet research but only found a lot of porn and no meaningful advice on living nude at home. Eventually she took a Friday off from work and, without telling Mike, remained nude for all of her household chores, cooking, hobbies and relaxing. Mike was surprised and delighted to come home from work to enjoy a nude dinner and evening with Bessie. That evening she convinced Mike that they should try a Saturday afternoon at De Anza Springs. And now here they are. We toasted their courageous decision to try De Anza Springs on their own.
MORE WINE, PLEASE
As dinner wrapped up Don suggested that we return to the den for drinks and to contineue our talks. Everyone pitched in to clear the table while Don mixed six glasses of Susan and Julie’s favorite drink, Cuba Libre, a strong Rum and Coke with lime juice. As we all took our original seats in the den Mike said that he usually drank beer but was really enjoying the wine and the Cuba Libre.
The talk then shifted as Bessie asked questions about growing up in a nude household. She had become intrigued with Julie’s statements regarding mandatory nudity and growing up nude together. She wondered if our non-nudist friends knew about our lifestyle. The answer was that only some of our closest friends and sworn to secrecy. Did we ever take any of our friends or dates home to meet our parents. The answer was yes, but only after a lot of discussion. an explanation of what to expect and or parents’ permission. Our parents had made it clear that ours was a nude home and they would remain nude no matter who came home with us. When we did bring guests the meeting experiences were always positive.
As teens what were our favorite activities when hanging out with our nudist friends. Our back yard physical activities included horsing around in the pool, ping pong, croquet, water balloon toss and tetherball. We also played card games and board games like Life, Monopoly and Risk. For relaxing we played records, danced or just lay out talking.
Bessie continued by asking if we ever drove somewhere nude. When we were kids we would usually ride to camp nude, sometimes dad would be nude and mom only wore a lace shrug. When we started driving we continued driving nude to camp and sometimes to each other’s houses. We used to drive the 40 miles to De Anza nude, but recently, since they opened the boarder check point we wear sweats. But we still regularly drive nude between our houses. We keep a pair of shorts and a T-shirt handy in case we have to make an unexpected stop.
GETTING PERSONAL
On her second Cuba Libre, a more relaxed and bolder Bessie wanted to ask more personal questions. Of course, “yes”. Bessie asked if our parents ever become visibly aroused and did we see our dads get an erection. Yes to both parts. Our parents were were happy, together and in love, so they would hug and kiss often, at times becoming aroused. Sometimes they would briefly pet or fondle each other, but they kept their real sexual activities private. Susan added that, as a teen, Roger would get involuntary erections at random, inconvenient times. No one made special notice of erections because as normal body function they did not require concealment if treated discreetely.
Growing up nude from childhood we never associated nudity with sex. For us nudity was merely a state of dress. Sexuality does not require nudity but needed mutual sexually arousing behavior. We do notice that people that discover nudism later in life find it difficult to separate simple nudity from sexuality. Except for the fact that we were all nude, our family behavior and dynamic was actually no different than that of any textile families.
What did our parents and siblings say when we started shaving our pubic area. Both our parents liked it and thought it was a good personal grooming choice. In fact Julie’s sister and mother both started shaving soon after. Susan started shaving after she married Don. Her mother used to trim but never shaved.
Then Bessie mentioned that last weekend at De Anza Springs was the first time they had been in a place with other nude people and she had noticed that most of the women had shaved pubic areas, particularly Don and Susan with whom they had interacted so closely. And now here she saw that Julie was also clean shaven and I was mostly shaved. At that time my pubes were closely trimmed and my penis and testicles were shaved.
Before, Mike and Bessie’s only exposure to women with shaved pubic areas was the models in men’s magazines and porn. Now she wondered if they were expected to groom their pubes at the nudist clubs. Don reassured them that pubic grooming had become very popular but remained a purely personal choice and no one cares if you groom or don’t. It was like some men have beards and some don’t. Don added that after shaving for the previous ten years he and Susan had chosen to have electrolysis hair removal back in 1985 and were both quite happy with the results.
Julie said that about 30 years before she become the first in our two families to groom her pubic hair. When she was 20 she realized that a woman’s pussy was not the disgusting image that people generally held. On the contrary, it was a beautiful and desirable part of her body and the point of ultimate desire that drives all men. She decided that instead of obscuring it with a curtain of hair she would enhance its beauty and make the sight of her pussy enticing and appealing to compliment the rest of her looks. Much like choosing a hair style that complimented her facial features she knew the proper pubic hair style would enhance her overall appearance. She accomplished that by closely trimming and shaping her pubic mons and cleanly shaving her labia up to the top her clitoral hood. Now, on occasion she will shave completely, as she is now.
Noting that Bessie didn’t quite understand Don got an album of past family party photos from the shelf and turned to a pair of photos that clearly showed the changes in Julie’s pubic hair style. The first photo showed Julie with a full bush and the second with her shaved labia and trimmed pubis. He also pointed out several other photos of other friends and family and their various pubic hair styles. Every thing from full bush to landing strips and clean shaved.
Bessie admitted that, since spending the afternoon with Susan, she had considered some level of pubic grooming. She really liked the clean look. But she was reluctant because she feared her protruding labia minora was too unsightly to expose. She reluctantly disclosed that an old boyfriend had once maliciously told her that it was grotesquely large and she feared others may be repulsed if it was exposed. We all immediately agreed that the cretin that criticized her was clearly a misogynist pig.
SHOW TIME
At Susan’s request Bessie stood with her legs slightly spread and nervously combed back her mass of thick tousled pubic hair with her fingers to reveal her ample labia. Susan and Julie immediately dispelled her insecurities by assuring her that it was actually normal, exquisite and gorgeous. Over the years they had seen thousands of pussies and, in their opinion, Bessie’s was among the more attractive.
Then Julie and Susan stood in front of Bessie, posing side by side with their legs slightly open to show her the labia of their hairless pussies. Julie had wider labia majora with a small labia minora visible towards the top of her pussy. Susan’s labia majora were slightly narrower and her larger labia minora peeked out from the middle of her pussy. Julie said that they each had a unique pussy that they should consider to be a beautiful gift that should be displayed with pride, like they would a beauty treatment or new hairstyle.
Julie added that trying to hide or obscure her labia was not the answer and the proper grooming style would only enhance the overall beauty and appeal of her body. She added that as a test she could comb out and trim the longer stray hairs to get Mike’s opinion. Susan added that the AANR website had excellent articles on the subject. Now smiling broadly, you could see that Bessie was encouraged and reassured to receive such a favorable opinion from two experienced nudist women. You could see that her negative opinion of the overall appearance of her pussy was changing. That type of moral support made Bessie feel accepted by these members of the nudist community.
During the discussion and show a wide eyed Mike couldn’t control himself and developed an erection. He inconspicuously covered it with his towel but Susan noticed. She gave Mike a sympathetic look and apologized for their insensitivity in causing him to have an erection by their actions. She assured him that it was a natural and healthy reaction to a display that, though was not intended to be sexual, proved stimulating. Julie added that being lifelong nudists we had all seen countless spontaneous erections. The normal thing to do was to cover up, relax and wait a few minutes for it to become flaccid. Besides we take no notice if a man has a spontaneous erection, even walking, as long as he doesn’t flaunt it.
HEADING OUT
We then finished off the last of our Cuba Libres and Don noted that it was getting late and everyone had to work the next day. So we all got up and made our way to the front entry, Mike still with an erection. On the walk to the front room Susan then told Bessie, if they had no plans for that Saturday, they were welcome to a return visit and share the afternoon to talk and become better acquainted. Bessie eagerly accepted, saying that they would be there by noon.
Then before Mike and Bessie dressed we all shared naked hugs and kisses goodbye, a clearly concerned Mike trying to avoid brushing Susan and Julie’s thighs with his still erect penis. An exasperated Bessie handed Mike his jockey shorts so he could stow his erect penis. Then in quick order she slipped on her skirt and blouse. Stuffing her bra and panties into her purse she said that it would save taking them off when they got home.
Still nude, with keys in hand, Julie and I followed them out to the cars. When Bessie asked we told her that we usually drove home nude between Don and Susan’s, since it was less than 2 miles and there were no houses near the road. And that put to an end a memorable evening that could only happen when families and friends live life in the nude.
THE SATURDAY VISIT
Mike and Bessie arrived at Don and Susan’s home a little before noon that Saturday. Don, nude, them at the door, waited as they quickly undressed and folded their clothes at the small table by the door. Don led them to the covered patio by the pool where a waiting Susan greeted them with welcoming hugs. Don went back to the kitchen to retrieve the refreshments while Susan guided them on a tour of their flower and fruit tree garden. Mike and Bessie admired the fact that they could be nude anywhere in the garden and back yard. They were on a hillside and the garden was not visible by the neighbors or the road. The back yard featured a large lawn, a swimming pool with a large deck and a covered patio with a grill setup.
They returned to the lounges under the patio cover where Don was waiting with savory snacks, a fruit platter and drinks. They relaxed on the lounges and enjoyed the view of the distant hills and valley below. Susan pointed out that they searched for a long time to find a property as open and private as her previous home, where they previously lived for over 15 years before it was destroyed by the 2003 Cedar Fire.
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