Let me help you understand my views on this. Dom/sub relationships are not about the bondage or the spanking or calling one Sir - or the other any sort of pet names - but it more on the way that two people interact. There are some assumptions that can be made - but then while interacting - no assumptions should be made - that is where you need to find out your partner. I am very much into the bondage aspect -- think about it for a second -- all of these images with the fancy rope are not blindfolded - but I would imagine that you would have to be blindfolded during the tying. This can not be done super fast - and if you struggled - the artwork of the rope would not be done well.

So imagine the time that it would take - to get the ropes so artistically over and around you body -- think about being blind folded and my hands and the rope as they together move over your body -- the rope staying there -- you feel the pressure of it -- little by little you can relax your body - and still you will not move -- the rope bind you -- till you are completely tied -- it is a peace of living art - you are that art -- now like any other artist I would want to admire my art. Do you when you cook -- or bake a cake -- want to eat it right away - or do you want to savor in the creation of what you just made -- smell it - look at it - take it all in -- yes eventually consume it - for that is it's purpose -- just as you as my living art -- I would want to consume you - fulfill you - Take you.

The patience of the rope hopefully had done it's trick on you - making you understand your vulnerability - and also knowing - that you have given me your body to manipulate -- The roller coaster you ride for thrills -- knowing that the track will be safe - but then again you are not driving the little car and it goes along the track -- you have no control over it -- the tying of the rope is like the clack clack clack of going up the first hill in that little cart -- knowing that the wild ride is soon to come.