I’ve heard that when it comes to sex women are less visually inclined than men, but I’m not sure this is the hard and fast rule. Take my Amanda. The other evening she said she’d been bad at lunch. When I asked what she meant, she said she’d watched some porn. “There’s one I really liked, and I want to do it to you,” she said, and she showed me the clip on her laptop. A woman was jerking off her man, and he was shooting his seed into her open mouth. It was one of those animated gifs, so he came again and again, each spurt straight into her mouth. “I thought this was so hot,” Amanda said. “I had to go to the bathroom or my panties would have been soaked.”