Chapter 1: Life Changes

I was 38 years old and had been married to the same woman for 15 years. Looking back on it, I don’t know if we ever truly loved one another but we were best friends and great roommates. We agreed on everything except sex. I needed sex all the time. She wasn’t interested in sex at all. During our first year together, we had sex once a week. By our 5^th year it was once a month. We had a child during out 10^th year together and sex dropped off to once every other month. By our 7^th year, sex was only twice a year (my birthday and our anniversary). That lasted until our 15^th anniversary when she told me that she did not want sex anymore. She did, however, give me a “hall pass” because she knew how much I loved to have sex. So began my life of having “fun” with other women. By this time, I was employed as a blackjack dealer in a local casino. It didn’t take long before I had three ladies to have “fun” with. They were dealers, like myself, and had the same outlook on sex as I did. Sex is sex, not to be confused with love or commitment.

It was during this time that I accepted an invitation from one of my dealer “friends” to go to a Swing party with her. I only had sex one on one—this was a real eye opener for me. So many naked bodies, all shapes, sizes, and ages. It was a liberating experience and I was having more “fun” than I could stand. So much to see, so many naked breasts and pussies to touch. About an hour into the party, a new couple arrived. They immediately stripped naked and started mingling with the group. I recognized them immediately and I looked for the nearest corner to hide in. The new couple was my brother and sister-in-law. They finally spotted me and came over to my corner of the room. My brother gave me a big smile and shook my hand. My sister-in-law also gave me a big smile and started fondling my cock. We didn’t “play” together that night but did get together several times afterward until they moved to another state. As much “fun” as I was having, it was always one on one, MF, sex.

A few months after the party, I was promoted to Pit Boss and the casino did not take kindly to managers fucking their employees. My brother and his wife had moved out of state and I was back to having no sex at all. I joined an online site called AFF and started corresponding with singles and married couples. That is where I met Susan and Max. During our conversations I found out that Susan was a “hot wife”–she liked to be shared with other men. Max asked if we would like to meet up sometime and I readily agreed. At this time, I lived in New Mexico and they lived in Texas. We finally set a date and they came to New Mexico to meet with me. I was about to have my first MFM experience.

I booked them a room at the casino hotel and after work went up to their room. I was really nervous. Sure, I had been to a swinger party, but that was a lot of anonymous sex. This was to be a threesome with two men and one woman. I was worried about male/male touching or worse. I was worried if I could satisfy a woman who had many other men before me. I was pretty much a wreck by the time I knocked on their door. It turned out that they were a very nice, middle class couple, who put me at ease in a very short period of time. (Maybe my time with my brother and his wife helped, but I knew them. I didn’t know Max and Susan.)