@Daydreamz
That's a good attitude to have, if you can. For me, the reason I publish stories, having written them, is to have some people enjoy them, and in that to have a little achievement.
So the feedback matters to me. I don't mind my weaker stories scoring lower, that's how it ought to be.
But broadly speaking the positive votes are genuinely about the story, whereas the negatives sometimes are, and sometimes aren't. And then it all gets averaged.
I love to read, but have a limited budget. I appreciate people who Write and provide us Content. Many, perhaps most of the content posted here is not to my taste, but I don't down vote those stories. Mostly, I don't read them, Mostly.
I enjoy sex, and I enjoy well written depictions of sex. I prefer that If there is sex in the story, that it either develops the characters, advances the Plot; or Both. But I am here for stories about history, action, war, intrigue, human interaction, mystery, Sci-Fi or Fantasy, "coming of age" or even "Do Overs" whatever, and I know many of these stories are written by amateurs. Amateurs who have gained talent, experience, and opportunities to improve due to constructive feedback!
When I "downvote" a story it is because the writer just doesn't seem to care that they have significant issues with spelling and grammar, or the "snuck" in some squick of mine, without using a Tag. I understand that sometimes an author want a Surprise in the story, so, a hint such as "Dark Tales" or even "Some Tags Omitted" may be okay.
For instance, I could see omitting the Tag: Crossdressing, if a plot point of a character being a Crossdresser comes out as a surprise, say after they are murdered, wounded, or in some way outed. Previously the character may have had sex "behind doors" but the reader is "not aware of it" (though there might be some "hints" earlier in the story.
I would not be happy if the Tag is omitted and there is blatantly depicted sex or whatever in the story. The writer only omitted the Tag because they wanted more people to start reading their story.
A grey area would be in a story with a lot of characters, and one of them wears a dress, on occasion; but it is Not a major Plot Point. Example: M+A+S+H the TV series, Corporal Klinger would sometimes wear dresses in a forlorn effort to get a "Section-8 Discharge" out of Korea and the US Army. There is no sex involved (and the Crossdressing Tag is mostly related to a "Sexual Kink" not a female character wearing "Her Man's shirt" or a Tomboy wearing a football jersey while playing "sandlot" sports with "the Guys") Klinger wearing women's clothes was mostly for humor "Part of the overall Craziness" and the Focus was: "I gotta get Outta This Place!" Never that he actually felt he was a woman. In later seasons it was dropped because the Character realized it wasn't working; and clearly the "joke" was worn out."
Anyway, good attitude, and one I share. I am mostly posting my stories here to Get Feedback because it is one of the best ways to improve my writing.