I saw this ad on a D/S website, repeated here without editing:
"married for six months, originally from Ukraine, 24 years of age, nice looking and my husband is from UK. He likes to get me trained to be his submissive. Never tried it for real except back home when I was getting my spankings. Need me to be his slut, asks me to dress very daring, and he even watched me with one of our best friends.
we both wish a serious man, very experienced, to train me privately and discreetly, ready to move to his place for two weeks or so, but hope he would follow up this training by visiting us or asking me to revisit him. This thing will be private between me and him, my husband will not interfer.
will need some time writing to get know one another before any meeting, if close to us (L.A.) will ask him for dinner after a little time to get to know one another.
In another section of her ad she described her interests:
Always Naked / Collar & Cuffs
Being Serviced Orally
Enema Training & Conditioning
This was, of course, too good to be true, but I replied anyway with the following:
I, too, am in LA, and have recently lost two submissives due to relocation for work. As you can read on my profile, I am married and my wife is not interested in any part of this lifestyle, so you could not move in with me here, even for a while. It might be interesting, though for me to come to visit you and perhaps train your husband in how to treat you, so you could better serve him. Or, if it's more comfortable, I could come there when he's not at home.
Of course, you probably have thousands of offers, but here is one more. I am older, but not ugly ... Pic available.
In order to make things a bit clearer about what I would like to do with you, and maybe have you run away in fear, or decide to see me, I am enclosing the training manual I would use with you.
Private Training Conduct:
1. you will always wear approved Training garment or be naked at all times.
2. Approved training garment would probably be thigh high stockings and heels.
3. you will always be clean shaven from the neck down.
Before we meet, learn the following 10 Positions by name and number. (All positions will be held still until you are told to move.) There will be hand signals that you will learn later.
Sit at Trainers feet, eyes on Trainer, facing out.
Up on knees, hands back, back straight, eyes down.
Flat on floor, face down, legs wide, hands back.
Stand, legs wide, knees locked, hands to knees.
Dog style, elbows locked, head up, knees together.
Dog style, head to floor, knees wide, palms ahead flat.
On spread knees, hands behind head, head up, tits out.
On back, head straight, hands up at side, legs spread wide.
Stand, legs wide, hands behind neck, eyes on Trainer.
Up on wide knees, back straight, palms up at sides, head back, mouth open.
Obey the Trainer at all times. Do not hesitate.
Be respectful to the Trainer at all times.
Any words spoken to Trainer must end with "Sir".
Submissive will gratefully thank the Trainer within 15 seconds of finishing any punishment, or full punishment will restart.
Punishments will be restricted to using hands, paddles or canes; on ass, tits, or upper legs.
Orgasm will not be allowed without permission.
Screaming, begging and crying are acceptable, although the Trainer might tire of the noise and gag the sub for the sake of his hearing.
Submissive must submit to a 15 minutes punishment before and after each and every training session.
Submissive will submit to any Evil, Wicked tortures the Trainer may seek for his own pleasure.
Submissive will make eye contact with the Trainer when speaking, laughing or smiling; for her eyes are a Gift only for the Trainer, not to be given to the floor or anyone else.
If Submissive answers the Trainer's question,"No Sir," you must directly follow it with a brief valid reason.
Submissive must ask the Trainer to leave his presence for any reason.
Submissive will submit to oral, vaginal or anal intercourse with the Trainer.
Submissive will not ask for any sexual satisfaction from the Trainer.
Submissive agrees that she may be bruised or otherwise marked at the hands of the Trainer.
Submissive will allow the Trainer to sexually stimulate her during training.
Trainer will not subject the Submissive to any training, sexual contact, or punishment from another person, without her approval.
After the Trainer decides the time is right, the Submissive will be given to her husband as an approved submissive who will later and privately give a verbal report to the Trainer about the submissive's successes and failures. The submissive will also give the Trainer her report on the session privately. The Trainer will either punish or reward the submissive on her performance at a later time.
Trainer will not slap or hit, the submissive's head or face.
If we meet in public, you will address me as "sir." You will wear no bra or panties. You will wear a skirt (or dress), un-gartered thigh-high stockings, and heels. You will walk 1/4 step behind me and hold my left elbow with your right hand. You will look nobody in the eye but me. You will speak only when spoken to.
That was it. I sat back and waited.
Two weeks later, I got an e-mail. Here it is, again, unedited:
my husband and I would like to meet you to talk about our interests.
I sent her my phone number and she called within an hour. She had a disarmingly sexy Eastern European accent.
We made arrangements to have lunch at a place not far from their house with the understanding that, if all went well, her training would begin as soon as lunch was over.
When I arrived, they were standing outside the restaurant as we had arranged. He was about 5' 10" and not terribly interesting looking, but well dressed. She was ... uh ... hot. 5'7" light brown hair, small breasts, beautiful wide open light green eyes. Her skirt was short, but not so short to be improper, her white blouse hinted at the erect nipples behind it.
The look on her face was one of apprehension. As I walked up, they both looked at me smiling, wondering if I was the right guy, or just someone coming to lunch. My big smile told them what they wanted to know and they smiled in return. I looked directly into her eyes and said, "You must be the beautiful Mary."
Her breath caught in her throat. She stammered, "yes, sir." I reached out to shake her hand and she took it. Her hands were cold and shaky. I then looked at her husband and shook his hand as well. "Hello, Mark," I said.
"Nice to meet you."
We walked into the restaurant and got a table away from anyone else. No on spoke until we sat down. "You are a beautiful young woman. Why do you want this training?"
"I want to please my husband."
"you don't please your husband now?"
"I try, Sir, but he wants more from me, and I don't know what to do."
"Mark, what is it you need that she isn't giving you?"
"I would like her to be obedient and more attentive."
"I can certainly help her do that."
"Mary, spread you knees." She looked at me with disbelief, then slowly opened her legs. "That was good because you obeyed me, but not good because you were slow to obey. Do you understand that?"
She turned bright red. "Yes, sir." Then she stammered, "I'm sorry, Sir."
I almost felt sorry for her, but this was what she said she wanted. "There will be many times that you will make small mistakes. They will be easier to forgive at first. Later, it will not be easy because you should know better. Is that clear?"
I don't think she was really able to speak at that moment, but she swallowed hard and squeaked, "yes, sir."
The waitress came to the table and we ordered. For some reason nobody was very hungry, so we just got drinks.
"Mark, I know you asked for this, but do you think you will respect her for doing it? I'd like you to think long and hard about how you'll feel about her later. Your big duty to her when she becomes more submissive will be to love and protect her. I will protect her and keep her safe when we are together and you will have to keep it up.
She is making herself completely vulnerable and submissive to your wishes. You have to honor that and be respectful and give her that love, attention and a safe place to be."
His English accent was as charming as her Ukrainian accent. "I understand, David."
I looked directly into her eyes. "I have a few questions. You will answer quickly and honestly. OK?"
My eyes never left hers. "Whatever we do, no good will come of it if you don't participate wholeheartedly. You must be completely attentive to the moment and never let your attention wander. Is that clear?"
"Do you normally have multiple orgasms."
Do you orgasm easily?"
"Does your whole body shake when you come, or is it just a pleasant feeling, or something in between?" She looked at Mark. "I am speaking to you, don't look to him for approval for your answers." She quickly looked back.
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