I am a mid-life Dom man in the midwest US. I am dominant in all aspects of my life, not a roleplayer. I understand a submissive's need for control and discipline and I also understand my role in providing that for mutual pleasure. I realize that all good Ds relationships are based on trust and that can only be earned by honest communications. Everything else is just game or roleplay. Submissive females are welcome to message me, but if you do, be sincere and don't waste my time with drama.