Hi

I am a woman in my fifties, daycare nanny from Finland and happily married to the same man for over thirty years.

We have two lovely daughters and one son, the eldest of whom has already moved into her own apartment with her boyfriend.

I have been very sexually active and always easily seduced, especially if alcohol has played a role, so it is no wonder that all our children have different fathers.

Only one of them is probably fathered by my husband.

But alcohol has nothing to do with this loss of my virginity.

I had just turned 14 and started dating a boy a year older, who later became my loving husband.

The Finnish summer was warm and we headed to the beach, me, my boyfriend and our friends, three boys and two girls.

We spread our blankets on the beach and lay there sunbathing.

During our month-long relationship, my boyfriend and I had already managed to caress each other, give each other groping kisses and we did quite a bit of that while we were on the blanket.

We hadn’t had actual sex yet.

I had already wondered for the first time what it would feel like when someone shoved his penis inside me and pierced my hymen and made me a woman.

And of course whether it would just be a painful experience or maybe even a pleasurable moment? The boys wanted to go swimming and we girls stayed on the blankets to lie down and sunbathe.

As I lay there with my eyes closed I heard voices next to us.

Someone else had also decided to come to the beach which was already relatively well populated.

Of course I opened my eyes and because the sun was shining I could see nothing but a dark figure who was sitting on his own blanket.

I turned myself onto my stomach so my eyes could get used to the bright sunshine and I could see the person who had come next to us.

He was a very tanned man, black hair, a short black beard and chest hair, maybe from some Mediterranean country.

Our eyes met and I saw his really dark, almost black eyes.

He greeted with a nod and you greeted back with just a brief “hello”.

After maybe 5 minutes of silence, the man asked in a slightly accented voice if I happened to know the temperature of the water.

He said he might go swimming if the water wasn’t too cold.

I replied that I didn’t know, but my boyfriend will probably come back from swimming soon so he can tell me.

The man smiled and said that he wasn’t surprised at all that such a beautiful woman had a boyfriend.

I must have turned bright red in the face and silently thought in my mind that he thought I was beautiful, and a woman even though I was just a young girl with small breasts and hair that had only started growing a year earlier.

Although I always shaved them off, keeping my pubic hair free.

When I thought about what the man had said, I felt myself blushing even more.

Now, as an adult and much wiser, I realize of course that the man was an experienced seducer and had a very clear goal.