Chapter 271: About Three More Girls: Gina, Leanna and Ava

Late-June to Early-July, 2005 (Continued)

One of the miscellaneous dates I did have time for, was with Gina, my favorite Italian girl. She was the only one I knew, but she was definitely my favorite for two very important reasons: she was happy to cook, and she was good at it. Leanna was included in the date, making it just the three of us.

Leanna had calmed down since her foolish tantrum, and she'd apologized very sincerely to me. Normally I wouldn't have dated her again, but I wanted to date Gina. They didn't necessarily have to come as a matched pair, but there was a good reason for it in this case. While there are many wonderful aspects to Italian culture (off the top of my head: the girls are happy to cook and they're good at it), they have a terribly old-fashioned idea that their girls should be virgins on their wedding day. When I first rang to suggest a date, Gina had quickly warned me that it was important to her that she retained her virginity (it truly is VERY hard to find the perfect girl!). So I invited both girls: Gina because I enjoyed her company the most, and Leanna to fuck.

I wanted to give Gina a good time orally, but she was reluctant to enjoy even that. (Italian culture has a great deal to answer for, although the answers can wait until they've finished cooking.) I did manage to corrupt her though, by getting her to sit beside the bed while I had my evil way with Leanna. The rhythmic clenching of my cute butt worked its dark magic again, and Gina became sufficiently excited to join us on the bed.

She was very concerned that I not "spoil her", and it was obviously very important to her that I didn't. I gave her a truly sincere and convincing promise to respect her boundaries, and then I gave her several jolly, virginity-retaining good times.

She'd been sensibly keeping guys well away from that area, so she'd never experienced so much "jolly" before. I 'jollied' her so well, that she started hinting that she wouldn't mind if I made love to her. I knew far better than to do that - no way did I want to upset such a good cook! - so I spanked her bottom for being a naughty girl, and then kissed it better, although many of my kisses missed the spanked area. It didn't seem to matter though, as she was soon jolly again.

When I'd worn them out, I lay in bed with both girls tucked under my arms to chat with them. I wanted to make sure Leanna didn't suffer a relapse of her childish temper-tantrum silliness, and I thought it'd be a good idea for Gina to calm all the way down before she went home, as I imagined her family might be excessively suspicious of sexual impropriety.

When she'd calmed down sufficiently, Gina was VERY, VERY thankful that I hadn't taken her up on her hints.

"You can trust me, Gina. I understood how important it is to you, and sex isn't so important to me that I'd do something that bad to you, even in the heat of passion. Which, with someone as nice as you, is PLENTY heated!"

"{Giggle}. Really?"

"Absolutely. If you weren't so nice, I wouldn't have cared so much about what happened to you afterward. In addition to my thinking you're nice, you learned some other things. First, in the heat of passion, YOU lost sight of what was important to you. Second, I can't claim to be any sort of expert about how other guys behave when they're having sex, but I strongly suspect that most of them wouldn't have been able to resist your invitation. Those two points combine rather badly for you if you want to remain a virgin until your wedding day. You've learned something about yourself that is important for you to remember. Third, you've learned is that you can trust me. It was a risky way of learning it, but you're lucky you picked me to lose your inhibitions with. With any guy other than me, your virginity would be gone by now, rather than just been very well licked."

"Haha. You're right. You saved my life. It would have been a huge disaster if you'd done what I wanted."

"If I saved your life, does that mean I own you now. Is it Italians who do that, or maybe Eskimos?"

I was angling to get her to feel obligated to me. I was very aware that when we moved into our mansion, Julia, Carol and I will be living in a separate house with its own kitchen. We'll usually have our meals with the parents, but it might be a very good idea to have a good cook come to visit sometimes. In a year or so we'll be moving to my new university (presuming Mom agrees about Carol by then, and she damned well better, or there'd be a very big and bad family battle). Wherever we move to, we'll have to do our own cooking, which means mostly Carol will. The sooner and better she learns, the happier I'll be. Gina would be a perfect teacher. (If anyone ever accuses me of using girls just for sex, they're WRONG, because I'm also very eager to use them for cooking.)

"I'm sorry to say that it's not Italians. You shouldn't try telling Papa that you own me, or I'll have to save your life, haha."

"Thanks for the warning. Does that mean we're equal now, so I'll have to invite you into my bed again to get you back into my debt?"

"Am I REALLY safe with you? Because I won't come back if I'm not."

#3: <Thereby proving she truly doesn't understand guys.>

"Yes, you really are. I will never, ever hurt a girl who cooks as well as you do."

"Haha. You sounded so sincere when you said that."

"For a very good reason! I can get dozens of girls to have sex with me, but as far as I know, none of them cook as well as you. I'm making a joke out of it, but part of what I just said is important. Most guys don't think they get enough sex. Pretty much every guy wants more, so whenever a guy gets a chance for sex, he goes for it. If you'd got too excited and made the hints you did to any other guy, he would've taken your virginity. The reason you're safe with me is because I do get enough sex. I get as much as I want. I would like to have sex with you, of course, because I like you, but I don't want it so much that I'll go against your true wishes. I guess the easiest way of saying it," (because one of my minds thought of a better way), "is that I like you more than I like sex; whereas most guys like sex more than they like and care about the girl."

"You're right," agreed Leanna. "That's what all the guys I've known have been like. They push and push for more and more sex, because THEY want it, not caring about what I want. They're very selfish."

"I don't intend to be mean to you, Leanna, but let me remind you that after the first time we had sex, you wanted more, and you were very upset when I put you off."

"Oh yeah. I was selfish. I hate that boys are so pushy, and I did the same thing..."

"Some very smart people I know say it's okay to make a mistake once, provided you learn from it and don't make it again. I obviously didn't hold your first mistake against you, or you wouldn't be in my arms now. But if you repeat that mistake, then you will be as bad as the boys you complain bitterly about."

"I won't. I'm so embarrassed about what a fool I made out of myself, especially now that I see that I was being the same as boys are. I won't make that mistake again. Thanks for giving me a second chance."

"You're welcome, sweetie. You're a good girl at heart." EVERY girl likes to hear you think she's "good at heart". They eat that stuff up. For some reason it's FAR better to compliment that organ than say she's got great tits. To be somewhat more serious, I congratulated myself for doing a good job at stopping Leanna causing another scene. From now on she should let me fuck her whenever I want, without making a 'selfish' fuss about it. On the other hand, I'd like to do without Leanna if I could get Gina trained enough. Gina was the nicer one, had more personality, was better looking, and there was something else that I like about her that I've temporarily forgotten. It'll come to me soon (probably around mealtime). That Gina seems to trust me with her body now is a very good start, but the trouble is that she wasn't into any bi stuff. She and Leanna hadn't touched each other at all. I hoped that wasn't an aspect of Italian culture, or I'd be in serious danger of having a bad overall opinion of Italians. I didn't want to go on a date with just Gina, because the sex would have to be frustratingly incomplete, as I truly wouldn't "spoil her". So dates with Gina would have to include someone like Ava or Pat as well.

#4: <With Lily away and Pat missing her, maybe we should hook Pat and Gina up. They're both home types, and I think they'd get on pretty well together.>

#6: <That might be a fun project for after we got back from Europe, presuming Lily isn't back by then.>

There was no harm in planting the seed now, so I said, "Gina, I'm lucky enough to have quite a few female friends, and I know several of them have very successful romantic relationships with other girls. Quite frankly, girls often seem to be happier in relationships with other girls than with most guys. Because your virginity is so important to you, and because guys are TERRIBLY unlikely to care about your remaining intact, especially when you're so turned on you stop caring about it, you might want to give some thought to finding yourself a good girlfriend and avoiding guys for a while."

"I don't think so. I'm not interested in having sex with girls."

"You've spent too much time with guys. I talked about your starting a relationship and you immediately rejected it on sexual grounds. With guys involved, relationships are focused on sex, because that's what they push for all the time. But between two girls it doesn't happen that way. Girls are too empathetic and caring to push the other girl into sex if she doesn't want it. If they both like each other, and are both comfortable, then they can sometimes add sex to their friendship, but it's never the reason for the relationship. It's not even an important part of it; it's merely something they do to express their friendship.

^-- "I don't want to sound boastful, but I'm pretty good at understanding the female psyche, and I've several times introduced two girls to each other and seen them develop very good friendships. I raised this topic as a suggested way of helping you retain your virginity, so it's appropriate to talk about sex, even though sex isn't the main reason girls have relationships. In some cases the girls I introduced became sexual, and in some cases not. Interestingly, several of the relationships that did become happily sexual were with girls who'd never had sex with girls before, and at the start of relationship spoke like you did about not being the slightest bit interested in it.

^-- "You know what a genius I am, and you've seen the huge number of girls that enjoy my company. And only a few minutes ago I proved how 'awesome' - your word - I am at arousing you sexually. I wouldn't be that good unless I understood a lot about female psychology, because with females good sex requires good emotions. So I speak with quite a lot of expert confidence when I say two things: First, I have a good friend who's one year ahead of you at school, who I think you might get on very well with. I need to get to know you better to be sure of that, but that's my initial impression. Second, I'm pretty sure that with the right girl, and if your relationship with her was working well, then you'd find that you enjoyed adding the sexual aspect. You've got the right sort of generous, giving personality, you're trusting - which is risky with guys but important in a good relationship - and you've got a pretty good attitude to sex generally. I'm confident that you could have a successful sexual relationship with a girl," most of m confidence came from her not running out of the room in appalled revulsion. "My only real uncertainty is over who would be the ideal girl for you."

"I thought you were talking about me and Leanna."

"Oh no. Not at all. I obviously like Leanna, and I'm sure you're good friends, but I can't see you and her making that sort of relationship work successfully. Because of the way you've been brought up, in a family where parental authority is strong and respected," I was taking some guesses here, based on her wanting to remain a virgin, "you should be in a relationship with a girl you can look up to and respect, but she has to be kind and caring, not the sort of girl who'd use her authority over you for anything selfish. Sort of like the perfect older sister. I know people don't have sex with sisters, but it's more important to get the relationship right than it is to worry about minor issues like sex. That'd take care of itself anyway, if the relationship works well. That's the sort of thing I have in mind. What do you think?" I asked that question because I could see Gina looked impressed.

"You're a VERY strange boy! I never expected to be lying naked in bed with a boy who was trying to set me up with a girl. Are you trying to get rid of me?"

"Haha. No, not at all. In fact, the girl I have in mind for you is a good friend of mine, so if you two became friends I'd end up seeing more of you." Gina definitely looked interested in that particular consequence. Which she obviously would've, or she wouldn't be in my bed now, so I should've used that point earlier. I could build it up even more now though, so I added, "She's actually one of my favorite lovers, so if she and you were together, not only would I see you more often, but that'd quite often be in my bed. If that's what you wanted, of course."

Considering Gina's reaction to what I'd done to her over the last ninety minutes, there wasn't much doubt she'd love to be seen more often in my bed (actually Julia's bed, but I wasn't going to quibble at a time like this). She was visibly eager, but also uncertain, asking, "She's your lover, AND she likes girls?"

"Sure. Just like you're my lover - up to where you've drawn the line about that - and you'll like girls too. I know the playing around with girls that you've done in the past didn't do anything much for you, but that was because you weren't in the right type of relationship. What I have in mind would be different."

"How can you POSSIBLY know what I've done before?"

"I obviously don't know the details, but those don't matter. To someone as smart as me about girls, it wasn't hard to discern the effect those experiences have had on you." I hadn't even bothered thinking about it. I'd merely used some vague wording that could mean anything. I'd learned that most girls did a bit of playing around when they hit puberty. Whatever it had been, "Didn't do much for you," and, "Weren't the right type of relationship" would apply reasonably well to pretty much every girl.