I’m a single male (35) and a while ago I decided to adopt a girl (now 14) and we actually have a pretty good dad/daughter relationship together.

A few days ago, when I came home from work and after she went to bed, I decided its “man time” and I booted up my pc to watch some porn. When I was masturbating, I suddenly heard her close to me, saying: “ew, wtf?!”

I was a bit shocked and in embarrassment I quickly put my dick back in my pants and I quickly apologized to her for seeing that, as I thought she was asleep. I told her to sit on the sofa and I explained to her that, since I didn’t have a girlfriend for a long time – sometimes men have needs, but she wasn’t really supposed to see that. I apologized again and she asked me what I was doing.

I never really had “the talk” with her yet, so I explained that sometimes in a human’s body, hormones just take over and people get horny and they want to have sex. I continued to explain that masturbation is a way to simulate sex yourself, without actually having sex.

She asked me what’s so amazing about sex and I told her that it’s the feeling, a feeling I cant explain in words – but she’ll find out herself later, when she’s old enough and when she finds a boy that she really likes.

Then she asked me, if she couldn’t masturbate, to see how it feels? I didn’t expect this question at all and I was a bit shocked because of it. She apologized and looked at me as if she said something wrong – but I immediately assured her that she didn’t have to say sorry but that I just didn’t expect this question from her. I continued to explain that, yes, she can masturbate too.

She asked me how, because she doesn’t have a dick – so pulling surely wouldn’t work, would it?

I told her that I could explain it to her, but she couldn’t tell anybody that I’ve told her that, especially not during the mandatory psychologist visits from CPS. She assured me she wouldn’t tell anybody and I explained her that if she puts her hand under her panties, and rub a little bit – she’ll find a specific spot that’s more sensitive than other parts down there. I told her to find it.

I noticed how her hand was sliding under her pajama pants and to my surprise this was kind of turning me on. Obviously I didn’t say a thing.

After a few seconds she told me, I think I found it. I told her to gently rub it and that every girl likes to do it different. She should place her finger tip on top of it and gently move it in small circles counter-clockwise. She said: “oh waow, that feels really nice – it tickles, but its nice”.

I smiled and I told her – she can use two fingers and it’ll give her more space to jiggle around.

After a few seconds she said: “2 fingers is indeed a bit nicer”. I let her play for a few seconds, trying to not be weird about it, but I couldn’t help to look at the movements she made – as I could see her hand slowly going up and down.

I told her that, she herself should experiment a bit with how fast she likes better or how firmly she wants to press it, as this is different for every girl. She just said “ok” and I could see that her hand was moving faster, than slower and she was experimenting a bit.

I told her to lean back a bit and put her feet on the edge of the sofa, while spreading her legs a bit – it would create more space for her fingers.

She pulled her hand out to situate herself better on the sofa and when she slit her hand back under, she said: ewww, its all wet and she showed me a wet finger. I started laughing softly and I told her that that’s absolutely normal, because: “like I said earlier – its a simulation of sex and by making it wet, your body is preparing for a dick to go inside of it. It will damage you if you’d be dry”. She looked very confused at me. I told her: “I promise, its normal – you can just continue and it’ll only feel better if you put some of that wet on the sensitive part”.

She looked a bit discussed at her finger and then back to me. Me, beings extremely turned on right now, told her: “here, let me show you – stand up.”

She stood up, I grabbed her hips and turned her around. I said: “look, I’ll show you”.

I laid my hand on her belly, sliding it towards the top of her pajama pants. When my middle finger just got under it, she firmly grabbed my hand and said: “What are you doing?”.

I told her: it’s okay – I’ll just show you how you can do it and that the wet is not bad.