Chapter 8

Hello this is Sue from TFR, below is a questionare that will help us know a lot more about you and your family, and you may get to know your partner and family members along the way ... Please feel free to fill it out and send your responsed to our email. If you have any other questions that we should add please let us know, or if you need clarification on any ... Thank you!

The Family Resort has put together a comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know your partner, and for us to get to know you. We ask that each member of your family fill this out and try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question just write “PASS” for your answer. Both partners should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship...

What is your first name? How old are you? Are you Male or Female?

*** What’s your Favorite question? *** The Ice Breaker Questions

1 What’s your favorite animal?

Do you a least favorite?

2 What’s your favorite color?

Do you a least favorite?

3 What’s your favorite smell?
Do you a least favorite?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do?
Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

4 What’s your favorite genre of music?
What’s your least favorite?
Is there a song that triggers a memory?

5 What’s your favorite movie genre?
What’s your favorite movie of all time?
How many times have you watched it?

6 What’s your favorite TV series?
Do you have a favorite genre?

7 What’s your favorite book?
Do you have a favorite genre?

8 What’s your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Do you a least favorite?

9 What’s your favorite season and why?
What’s your least favorite?

10 What is your favorite family tradition?
What’s your least favorite?

11 What’s your favorite restaurant?
What’s your least favorite?

12 What’s your favorite food?
What’s your least favorite?

13 What’s your favorite drink?
What’s your least favorite?

14 What’s your favorite dessert?

Do you a least favorite?

15 What’s your favorite saying?
What word or phrase is your least favorite?

16 What’s your favorite vacation you have been on?
What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

17 What’s your favorite holiday?
What’s your least favorite?

18 What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day?
What’s your least favorite?

19 What’s your favorite fairytale?
What’s your least favorite?

20 What’s your favorite candy?
What’s your least favorite?

*** Random Questions *** Nothing too Serious

1 What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign?
Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

2 Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.)

3 What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

4 For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

5 Have you ever been hypnotized?
Would you allow yourself to be?

6 Do you have dreams? Can you remember them?
What do you usually dream about?

7 What are your thoughts on religion?
Is there an afterlife?

8 What are your thoughts on politics?

9 If you could have three wishes, what would they be?
Why?

10 List 5 of your top pet peeves.

11 List at least 5 things on your bucket list.

Have you done any of them already?

12 What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?

13 What is the craziest/scariest thing you’ve ever done?

14 What is an embarrassing moment in your life?

15 What bad habit do you wish you could quit?
Do you have any addictions?

16 Can we talk about your health history?
Have you had any surgeries?
Any broken bones?

17 Have you ever done drugs?
Which ones?

18 How often do you drink alcohol?
What is your favorite drink?

19 Do/have you smoked?
What do you prefer?

20 Do you have any tattoos?
Are there any you want?
Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Any that are a turn off?

21 Do you have any piercings?
Are there any you want?
Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Any that are a turn off?

22 Do you have any birth marks?
How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

23 What is your dream job?
What was it as a child?

24 What celebrities would you use your hall pass on?
How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

25 Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response?
Does it change with different settings?

26 Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show?
Which one did you cry the hardest?

27 What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

28 What are some things that people do that irritate you?

29 How superstitious are you?

30 Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

31 If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it?

32 What’s your greatest talent?

33 Beach or Mountains?

33 If you could visit any time period, when would you pick?

34 Ever been to a concert?
What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

35 Do you like playing board or cards game?
What is your favorite?

36 Do you play video games?
What is your favorite?

37 Do you like your name?
If you could change it, what would you change it too?

38 If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars. What would you do with all that money?

*** Deal Breaker Questions *** Get this wrong and this could mean the end... :-)

1 Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll)

2 Up or down? (The toilet seat)

3 Should Pluto still be considered a planet?

4 Do you fold or scrunch? toilet paper while you wipe...

5 Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

*** Questions About Me ***
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

1 What was your first impression of me?

2 What do you remember about our first date?
Rate our first kiss.

3 What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

4 What do you like about me (your partner)?
Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc... )

5 What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on?

6 What do I do in bed that drives you wild?

7 Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

8 Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you?

9 Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird?
How about an annoying habit of mine?

*** More Random Questions *** More thought provoking questions

1 What are your love languages?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time –
Acts of Service or Receiving Gifts
Take the short quiz here @ 5lovelanguages ... com

2 If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

3 Are there moments in your past that you would want to change?
Please share 3 of them.

4 What’s your biggest regret?

5 If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

6 Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

7 What do you like about yourself?
Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc... )

8 Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

9 What have you learned about yourself after taking this questionnaire?
Is there anything you would like to say to your partner at this time?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought.

1 How old were you when you had your first kiss?
Who? Care to Share?

2 How old were you when you got to 2nd base?
(Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact)
Who? Care to Share?

3 How old were you when you got to 3rd base?
(Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
How many partners have you had oral sex with?
Who? Care to Share?

4 How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share?

5 When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

6 How many sexual partners have you had?
Can you name them all? How many partners in one day?

7 What is the most in one day have you had sex?
Was it with the same partner? Who? Care to Share?

8 How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities?
What is the average for you now?
What’s the longest you gone without having sex?

9 How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?

10 How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?

11 Have you ever been caught by your parents or children in the act?

12 Have you ever had a one-nightstand?
Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

13 Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
What is your view on sex? What do you believe sex should be?