@jasonr.taylor
I'm hoping to find stories from the female POV to help me be a better writer in this regard.
I actually rather enjoy writing from a female POV. And have done it a great many times over the years. Here are a few of my unique ones.
https://storiesonline.net/s/21463/once-again-for-the-first
This one is interesting, because it is a kind of do-over, but the person narrating it is not the one repeating. Think of "Groundhog Day", but as seen from somebody on the outside seeing another repeating a day.
https://storiesonline.net/s/22822/valley-girl
"Valley Girl" is another. It is actually a companion piece to another story "Country Boy, City Girl", but told from the point of view of the lead female of the first. And much of what you describe, she also deals with. Including prostitution and drug abuse.
https://storiesonline.net/s/23664/sally-the-welder
"Sally the Welder" is yet another, but is a period piece set in the 1940's.
I do not make a conscious choice which POV I am going to use, until once I start to actually write the story. Most times it is quickly obvious which I have to pick, because of where I want the story to go. But I have also made the choice at least once to do both in the same story.
https://storiesonline.net/s/18982/bohica
This one is a bit different, as the character has a "super power" that involves changing genders. And part of the challenge in that was combining both genders in the same character, yet have their reactions be completely different for each one. Chris (the natural female host body) is very different than Bohica (the male Superhero persona). And thinks, acts, and reacts very differently. Yet the other personality is always in the background, and sometimes I even crossed them over, so the reader could sense the frustration of Bohica as "he" is "forced" to kiss another man and have sex with him. And the reverse, then Bohica finally gets a girlfriend and Chris (a heterosexual female) has to endure the same thing in return.