@Lazeez Jiddan (Webmaster)Plenty of people publish stories from that site, my impression was that the rule was that you aren't allowed to link to them, not that you can't mention them at all. If that's not the case I'd appreciate clear cut rules being posted.
I'm most definitely NOT affiliated with that site (hell, i strongly dislike the owners there), however, there's more stories there that match my interests (and more authors I follow are there), so I happen to know more from there than here. In the last month, SoL only had less than 10 new stories of the types I was interested in; and I religiously scan every single new story on SoL's new story feed. Not the site's fault, just works out that way content vs. my interests.
You have to decide what is of more value to you, to have a recommendation forum with more (and more useful) content - which presumably gives more value to users and thus draws more interest in SoL as well as probably improves search traffic - OR have a recommendation forum that's purely SoL. I'd suspect the latter won't help you much (seriously, how many people do you "lose" who decide to avoid SoL just because they saw a story recommended on a site they most likely ALREADY know about), but you're the boss and you make the rules.
No need to ban me, if my contributions to benefit this site's user aren't welcome, I have no problem to stop wasting MY valuable free time contributing them for others.