@Vincent Berg
Legally, which is what Lazeez (and hopefully you) are concerned with, there's a clear distinction concerning privacy and liability between living and deceased individuals.
Correct. But that isn't my concern.
As I stated;
If it was opt-in, I would support it fully, but ONLY if it was opt-in to in any way link pen names and display -any- information about the author not made public by themselves already.
Suggesting that information would be removed upon request, is not acceptable. Why? Because as we all know, once information is placed on the web, it cannot be completely removed. This is not a case where it is better to ask forgiveness than permission.
The vast majority of authors do not use their real names, does that fact alone not prove that they don't want to be identified? Can you honestly say it is both moral and ethical to post information, link pen names etc without permission of the author? Doing so could cause harm to reputation, family, etc. You simply don't know, so are you comfortable to ignore that and publish regardless.?
A list of names, with known status is a great idea. I have no issue with it. Taking that further, adding information not made public by the author, that is what I object to.
Using the excuse of, 'he's dead' or 'we can't contact him' in order to go ahead is to me, an utter breach of trust.
As for your suggested compromise, unless Lazeez was to create such a question that required an answer in order to log in, most would probably not see it, not bother, etc. How do you then deal with those authors? As with those known to have died, retired etc, do you go ahead regardless, or do you do nothing without permission?
Rep et al are doing something worthwhile, but in doing so they are walking into a minefield. I simply dislike the idea of letting them walk backwards whilst doing so.
Note: CW. Whilst this is in part aimed as a reply to your post, my comments are intended to address concerns, not to harangue you personally.