@awnlee jawkingI wouldn't call it "woke" or even place it anywhere near that area. Though, the term did go through a similar development. So, there IS a sizable part of the population that hears the term and basically understands it as "I'm not like all the other girls, you know?".
AFAIK, it was first coined by a journalist referring to autistic people, who then picked it up and tried to use it to tell the general population that "autistic" doesn't mean "defective". But, since then, it's been cultivated by a bunch of internet communities.
Consequently, by now, it encompasses basically every person who's brain doesn't work like the brains of the majority do. If, today, someone tells you they're neurodivergent, it can mean basically everything ranging from being dyslexic all the way to being a psychopath.
Which means that the term basically doesn't tell you anything anymore, so I would discourage people from using it.