I've got another question for you, readers. We've all seen the categories "no sex", "minimal sex", "a lot of sex", "stroke story". What counts as sex for these categories? Is penetration needed? If so, does oral count?
Personally, I tend to go with "anything beyond kissing". But I do realize I might be part of a small minority there. And since I'm thinking up a story where the distinction can make a huge difference in categorization, I'd like to know your opinion. It won't change the story, but I have no reason to get your hopes up for nothing by categorizing a story the wrong way.