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Female Led Vacation

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I have a plan to put proper endings on all my stories - girl scouts, kuttiyan, halloween, aunt scarlet and of course "the best story that I ever read".

I've just been focused lately on some other projects including AI music channel. I am an old man and I love to jam ut I can carry a tune the way that I can carry 200 pounds on my back (not at all).

So AI allows me to transform what is in my head to your ears.

Having said that, I need some feedback. Most stories about Female led relationships paint the women as cruel sex fiends who want to fuck anyone but their husbands. They often include blackmail or hypnosis because many men need to believe that normal men would never choose to be submissive and place their partner on a pedastal.

No lasting FLR could work that way. Most FLR in real life that I've encountered were the man's idea. Submission is not weakness or a mental illness. It's difficult for me as a non-vegan to imagine someone who won't eat delicious bacon. It might be difficult for a vegan to imagine someone who would.

The same is true for naturaly dominant people. They have a hard time believing someone would get off pleasing someone else. I knew a true submissive (IMHO) who fantasized about waking up everyday knowing what she was expected to do. She saw choices not as a plus but a bit of a chore.

She didn't want to decide what was for dinner or where we go to eat. She'd rather go some place that make sme happy, safe in the knowledge that Id choose some place she'd probably like.

What seems like a priveledge to me (choice) can seem like a chore or obligation to her.

I say all this because for a while I thought I'd do something that I've never seen before - write a Female Led Relationship story that is not a clusterfuck of dsyfunctional co-dependency.

Femdom and Female Led Relationships are not necesarily synonyms. Cuckold rleationships may a flavor of FLR, but usually they are not as they are portrayed in stories.

The woman delighting in control over her husband's orgasms still usually wants him to have them. She just wants him to want them badly instead of taking them for granted.

She's not trying to erase who he is. She's trying to polish him to be the man that she wants him to be.

Just like being gay isn't a choice, being submissive is a part of who some people are and they like it.

Just like a gay couple can walk around in public without wearing "Gay" rainbow t-shirts and acting like catty stereotypes who flaunt their sexuality, they may also not be ashamed of being gay. The stigma is real. That may not stop them from being authentically who they are and in love, just that they may be tone down their behavior the same way a straight couple doesn't have to flaunt their sexuality in public.,

It's that way in an FLR. The man can be polite and defer, he can open doors, and put his wife on a pedastel as he dotes over her without losing or behaving as he would behind closed doors.

In most FLRs, it may have a little flavor of something else, but essentially whatever you think the men would traditionally do, the woman does, and the men take care of things that women traditionally do. My test for an authentic FLR would be "Could you swap out the story with a man as the ehad of household and it still work the same?" = yes is the goal.

In the stories, the women are cruel for no real reason. If you were to swap out a man as head of the household in most cuckold stories, you'd probably say he was a narcisstic asshole that took his submissive for granted.

So, what if I wrote what I believe is a loving family that just happens to believe that the women of the family need to be placed on a pedastal, empowered, not spoken over or patronized? What if they didn't see service as a negative or a punishment but just as there was "Women's work" in 1950s mental hygene films that said men needed leisure time but girls should focus on learning new skills and crafting.

I don't have a title yet, other than the working title - FLR Vacation. I imagined what it would be like for a FLR couple to go on vacation.. The head of household invites her sister and their family along beause she is considering a FLR.

In the course of the story, I keep it softcore. it's not over the top hanging them by their balls. There can be twists and turns that keep you interested in an ENM/CFNM way but its a loving family taht has harmony.

In a 50/50 relationship, it's actually hard to get what you want. You almost always end up comprimising. In an 80/20, as long as you know the bills are paid, funds are managed and you trust your partner to make good choices for you - what if not everything needs to be an argument?

Would that interest anyone> or would you rather a story about two giant blonde girls that dominate their cousin and tease him? That was my other idea. The last time Troy saw his cousins they were short and fat, pudgy little fuckers. They have gigantism and they seem like adult porn stars because they have huge tits and ass, and their hormones are going wild. I could give some thought to more of that.

 

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