Well, things are looking better now, BFF is almost employed, we have a place lined up, just need to pull the trigger on applying after BFF is fully employed. Dad has finally gotten a place to live out his retirement, after 2 places denied him. So that is all a big relief off my chest. I'm going to try and get my cat labeled as an Emotional Support Animal. Other than my dad, she's the only reason I get up in the morning and out of bed, and with dad moving to the home, she'll literally be the only reason to get up and out of bed.
We'll be slowly transferring the car over to me or BFF, then the insurance and the tags. With that done, I will finally be living on my own and out of the parents house again, and not have to worry about my dad and how he'd survive with out some one constantly needing to be with him.
I've been taking care of my parents for 23 years now, first my mom, then dad after mom passed away. Now I'm free to live my life at 39, I can't help but feel cheated, not by taking care of my parents, but my body. I can't do anything, can't do the job I want to do, or jobs I need to do in order to survive, And the government is dragging it's feet even with a motion to speed things up due to possible homelessness at the start of this fiasco.
As for ANLoL, still stuck on Sarah's portion of the chapter, although after re-reading the chapter now I think I need to redo it all. It feels like a sub-par attempt at adding a bit of background to the 2 brother/sister couples, but then again it's focused on (spoilers) when they learned that they loved their sibling, and Sarah's a bit different.(/spoilers)
Once I'm moved and settled I'll try to restart writing ANLoL again, see if I can't get over this writers block I seem to have.