Interesting compliment from samurai: 'Nobody does tragedy like rlfj.' Thank you, though I'm not quite sure what that says about me. In one way it's sort of like being proclaimed the best serial killer. I'll have to ask my wife what that means. I'm not sure I want to know her opinion, either.
Many commented with sadness that we don't respect our veterans more when they pass. We went through this with my father when he died. He was in the Navy during WW2. Never saw any action, did his time, and got out, but we all knew he served, and we all respected him for it. When he died we got a petty officer and a boombox playing Taps. Fortunately, my nephew, an active duty Marine, was home on compassionate leave and in uniform. He took over for the PO and did the presentation of the flag to my mother. That made it very special to us.
A year later my nephew ended up in Fallujah, and my mother would pray to my father in Heaven to watch over him. That was considered odd to the rest of us, since she was really hard-core Lutheran, and we don't believe in saints watching over us. It worked, sort of. He came home from Iraq whole in body and damaged in soul, with a serious dose of PTSD.
Anyway, enjoy!