Like to cuddle? I just wondered... It seems to me that of the many things I miss about my last relationship is the few times my spouse and I took time to cuddle.
I know this is a sex story site, yet a part of a good relationship to me is to be able to touch my partner without it necessarily leading to a session of the mattress Mambo...
Not, mind, as I've stated that I'm opposed to those things happening either. I just find that maybe because of my age, they have slid down my priorities list quite a ways. I'd like to hold someone and lie beside them and read a book that we share liking... not necessarily erotica either. It could be a book on planning our finances together. Indeed, for a relationship to last very long I think I would definitely have to sit and face my partner while we made a budget that we both agreed to. I don't know that to be the only thing that destroyed my only long term relationships thus far, but I think that it was one of the top one, as well as planning who does the chores in the house and when!
Both of my long term relationships thus far had lots of rocky times over that issue too!