Why?
I want to know, why, do we (or I at least) define a relationship by what I find distasteful? Then I wandered what I would consider a good relationship? Really for the most part I'm a little log in the tooth for pure passion, the sort of I can see nothing but my next O passion that many people seem to think makes for a relationship.
I want a friend, and to a degree, I have several acquaintances here who are working their way toward becoming good friends. But I do worry that I have mislead people with what I am and am not… Still, for my age, I'm pretty enthusiastically bisexual. Just not into physical pain or bondage. Neither giving nor receiving pain is erotic to me.
I'm enthusiastically oral too… I find both felatio and cunnilingus to be erotic activities that I get into greatly… I like to kiss, both women and men… and I'd like to find someone to share the rest of my life with at times, but sometimes, as with the job hunt, I find the idea of reaching out to new people to be so daunting that I simply avoid it!
Still… I hope I am clear to at least one person today with my blog…