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Um, hi? I'd like to post a big THANK YOU to the readers for commenting and making suggestions. I kind of went around my stumbling block so that I could keep writing this story.
Some of the feedback was amazing and I feel like I was treated as someone with value as an author even though I havent earned respect like that yet.
One message I received is that the writer's girlfriend actually likes a good spanking every now and then - that's as close as I got to validation that there are really women out there who don't mind being corrected - even though that writer said it was a sexual kind of spanking.
I guess I'm wondering if its realistic to think there's a kind of woman who isnt so much a submissive, as a person who'll accept submission as a means of self improvement. Who doesn't get off on a spanking or nudity or being humiliated, but who is willing to accept it - and allow someone to treat their own child in that way in order for the pair of them to become better people.
A woman who actually knows what she wants and needs and has always been too afraid to search it out - in part because she fears being labelled a freak, but more for fear that the guy in control will abuse the trust they place in him.
Again, feedback seems to be the key for me. Someone taking the time to drop me a line helps my mind focus on what I want to get onto the page and I truly appreciate the folk that helped me.
Everyone says, if you've got an idea, just write it yourself!
So I made a start. And got stuck pretty quick. I want to imagine living this life but the concept is to have the female lead actually figure out what she will and won't do... kind of like topping from the bottom but in a way that there are clear, acceptable rules and restrictions not merely agreed to by the sub, but actually suggested by them.
I follow rules and I can ensure rules are followed as long as everyone involved is clear what the rules and consequences are. A woman says, "I'll do this and if I don't, it's okay for you to spank me. It'll make me think twice before doing it again, since I was the one that made the rule. I just find it easy to make rules and then break them 5 minutes later, so I need someone who will call me to the mat on my fuckups.
Since I'd create rules then accept being made to follow them for the right woman and incentive, why wouldn't a woman do it for the right incentive too? Maybe women just don't think like guys and this is high fantasy, thinking women have that ability.
Comments would certainly be welcomed.
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