I'm 61 years of age and my wife is 60. The incident occurred in august of either 1995 or 1996. She's certain of the month because it was around her birthday but we're less certain of the year. If the account is well received I may post some more. In any case there will not be many because we only got married in feb 94 and my wife's health deteriorated from around 1999. Around 2005 she was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Amongst the many possible symptoms are a tendency towards promiscuousness and engaging in risky/unsafe sex. This, obviously, goes a long way towards explaining her behaviour. When we got married she was aware of my wish for her to engage in sex with other men. She wasn't willing to do it but sometimes, when she'd been drinking, she found herself in situations that her disorder compelled her to allow men to have sex with her. The point i'm making is she didn't plan anything, things just happened to her.