I get that this a site for sexual stories. Fair enough. But there are some stories on this site that I think would be so much better with way less emphasis on the sexual aspect. I think the problem is that authors want to combine political and social commentary, cliff-hangers and heroism and violent excitement all rolled up with tender romance and then still make it massively sexy. I'm reading Tandra right now, which also has an alien contact element, which for me is the most compelling aspect. But the sexual aspects of the story just sometimes overwhelm the rest of the complicated story. There's urgent business that seems to get sidelined by other story elements and by the time we get around to the sex part, it's hard to remember that oh yes, there's other pressing business that we have to return to. What was it again?