I was thinking about love today, the kind of people share with family and close friends. Here are two ways people love (there are lots of others. Disclaimer: These are MY interpretations and analyses; you should get your own.) First, you love someone unconditionally, meaning, you trust they and/or God know what they are doing, and they are doing the best they can, and you just open your heart to them fully. If they live in a way that is something you don't like, you first ask yourself if it really affects you, and if not, it ain't your business and you go back to having faith that they are doing the best they can and it's between them and God/their conscience, and you just open your heart to them and love them fully. If it does affect you, change YOURSELF to a position of being the least affected by it, and then have faith that they are doing the best they can, and open your heart to them fully.
Here are two ways that people believe in God/a higher power (there are many others. Disclaimer: These are MY interpretations and analyses; you should get your own.) First, your faith in God, or your ability to follow God, is so shaky that you try to make everyone else follow God in the same way as you do in order to feel safe and secure that you're making the right choices. Second, that you have faith that God is available to every single person, and it is up to THAT person to make their own best relationship to God. It seems like choice 2, to me, gives GOD the most options, and doesn't limit Him. Choice 1 pretends that we best can set the rules for God.
In other words, no one can tell us who and what to believe in and be, and real love just flows, no matter what.