I just read 'Sally's Birthday' by Just Plain Bob (a virtual legend in CW stories). This story is about a man who suffered a tragedy in the Gulf War and has intermittent erectile dysfunction; at first, he'll go 8 to 10 months fine and then suddenly be unable to perform for 3 to 4 months. At the time of the story, it's been 14 months seen he's been able to perform.
His wife, obviously, cheats on him. She's very upfront about it; they go to a bar, she dances with three guys and tells her husband she's going home with them...and does them in the car in the parking lot, one at a time.
I found myself feeling for the wife. If there comes a time when I can't perform and my wife can, I'm hoping that I can be a big enough man and love my wife enough to let her do what she needs to do. Now, the 3 or 4 months without I don't think qualify -- obviously, there are toys for situations like that -- and also, it doesn't say if the guy was willing to be with her without coitus but I think that it is unreasonable to make her go over a year without.
Am I being unreasonable??