I'm a real wife and a real mom. I'm in my 40s, I've been married more than 20 years and my last child is a college freshman. My fantasies are very vivid which is why I need to write them down. I have a happy life but I have been frustrated in bed for a loooooong time. Oh...my fantasies started being inspired by characters on tv and in movies, then by people in my real life like my kids' friends. And maybe 5 years ago I crossed over into having serious fantasies about people a little more, "close to home." ;-)