I am 55 years old just retired after a lifetime in the military.I am in excellant physical shape after a military life and everything works except my hair,I am bald.
I write stories for women. Stories written by men are usually written for men and women find them too crude or demeaning.
Stories written by women for women are to predictable, to tame, so I fill the gap. Female characters tend to be self confident and beautiful and males are more laid back and easier to control.