I live in southern California, just north of Los Angeles. I've been a technical communicator for 20+ years.
Twice-divorced, I was married a total of 20 years. If I'd been reading erotic literature earlier, I'd have been a lot better at keeping my marriages going.
If you can believe it, I spent fifteen years giving oral sex to my last wife with no real idea what I was doing! Apparently she liked it, because that's what she always wanted.