I'm a 36 year old single mum. I am actively into BDSM and enjoy both my Dominance and submission depending on my mood. I have so many fantasy's that I just cant do them all and lets face it, some are better left as just fantasy. So I write. Sugar and Spice .. well the subby in me is all sugar and sweet . the Domme in me ..... smiles . I think you got the picture. I have a great deal of experience in BDSM so I try to capture the thoughts of the people in my stories by drawing on my own experiences.