I've been writing erotica off and on for over twenty years. In my private life, I'm ethically nonmonogamous and kinky, and I tend to write personal experiences into my characters, to one degree or another. "Write what you know," or so they say.
I do appreciate all the feedback I get; it's always nice to hear from readers. I don't do this professionally* or (let's be honest) even consistently, so the best reward I get is your votes and positive comments in my inbox. You're also welcome to follow me on Mastodon (@monkeysmut@smutlandia.com) or Tumblr (@charlesjeffries).
*:Which is to say that I'm not trying to earn a living through my writing. I have started publishing e-books on Bookapy though, so if you're interested in tossing a few dollars my way, I'd love it if you bought a book!