Most real life female lead marriages are not cuckold relationships in my experience.
I have nothing against cuckold relationships. However most of those stories paint the woman as a sex fiend who is looking for reasons to have sex with whomever she wants except for her husband.
I'm really looking for a loving BDSM relationship where the wife is the head of the household. She loves her husband and wants him to be better. She treats him as a valued submissive in the household. Ideally, the story would have vanilla children and family that either know or suspect that the wife is the one who is at least in charge. but are not involved in the couples sex or bdsm life.
She loves her husband and wants him but treats him as a valued sub. This is for his own good. He could have at one time been an alpha male or he is simply a natural submissive. there are many stories like this with the male as the head of household.
I'm looking for FLR stories