@Charro6
No woman of Cassandra wants him as her Hero even trying to get away from him after her rescue.
See Ed Warren's "The Richard Jackson Saga". While the protagonist is a superhuman hero from day one, complete with unnatural abilities and without a shadow of a doubt, he's continually rebuffed by women who are either drawn to him by him wealth or fame, or can't handle his lifestyle and end up abandoning him.
It's a tremendous story dynamic, especially given the otherwise 'comic-book' motif, as the two extremely really play well off of each other.
However, what I suspect that you're really looking for are the 'everyman' hero stories, where a reluctant hero hoping to avoid confrontations feels himself forced to defend others, only to be swept into a greater conflict, dragging his heels the entire way. It too is a common motif, which you don't seem to be fond of, but it's a common enough story element you can find a TON of great stories based on the premise.
Of course, then you get into the typical 'male' vs 'female' oriented stories, as the 'reluctant hero' generally does NOT appeal for the vast majority of female readers, who make up the majority of readers (at least in terms of literary publishing), so those of us who write those stories are essentially cutting off our noses to improve our looks.
A decent alternative isn't the anti-hero, but the 'damsel' in hero's clothing, who's tired to listening to males gloating about their own skills and eventually take things into their own hands, acting in a largely male role and taking charge from the largely incompetent males in their lives.
That IS a very popular, though a fairly rare book theme, but since it's diametrically opposed to the premises of 'female-oriented' fiction, it's essentially playing against those it's hoping to appeal to.
Those types of stories can usually be found by searching for 'strong women' or 'leading female' stories, as I've written a few of those myself, and have always enjoyed them (though they sell like shit!)