@FairWeatheredFriend
I know why you don't like people posting links to the other site but i don't agree with the reasoning for it.
You can only speak from your point of view. I see the backend of the site.
When you're dealing with a 500 story accesses per second up to 3000+ per second, you see the behaviour of thousands of people at the same time, you start seeing different trends.
While the forum seems slow, the readers are orders of magnitude more than the posters. Hundreds check the story recommendation and the lost stories sections.
What doesn't affect you personally (a link on the forum or a compelling description of something on another site), affects enough people to show up on my monitoring tools.
All of that is going off the assumption that there isn't any beef going on between you and the "webmaster" of the other site.
I have no beef with anybody except my butcher.