Guy has a lot of wives ans is an alpha male
probably not what your looking for, but has some of your elements. Living Next Door to Heaven - aroslav
https://storiesonline.net/s/76350/living-next-door-to-heaven
https://storiesonline.net/a/aroslav
The only problem with Jeff and Arlene is that the series has been going on for about 14 years and is already as long as maybe 30 novels. Glacially slow! I like the story but it takes forever to get anywhere.
Maybe 'Ascension of the Alpha Male'
https://storiesonline.net/s/42517/ascension-of-the-alpha-male
and it's sequel
https://storiesonline.net/s/43491/ascension-of-the-alpha-male-turbulent-times
by GoldenMage https://storiesonline.net/a/GoldenMage , who has unfortunately been dead since 2008.
https://storiesonline.net/universe/31/the-wizards-realm
There is a third story "Runaway" by GoldenMage and a 4th by another author.