@willstories
I used to do some stupid shit like that, girls just found me kinda lame or afraid to take action.
Exactly. I learned that lesson early.
Growing up in a world location that still didn't go through a sexual revolution (even to this day), I was 14 in the early 70s. At the time there was a local lake where my uncle operated speed boats that gave tourists exhilarating tours of the lake for a certain fee.
My uncle taught me to swim and he and I were known to be the two strongest swimmers in the area.
One time, a group of people including teen girls came to the lake to swim and have a fun day. I was doing nothing at the time, just tanning on the floating dock next to the boat, I was approached by a couple of the girls pretending to want me to teach them swimming.
I agreed and we got in the water and I stared teaching them how to float and keep their faces in the water and stuff like that, the way I was taught how to swim.
They would make mistakes and I would help them by having them lay over my arms to help them start and then I would remove my arms from under them and have them kick the water, etc...
I was doing it respectfully and was being proper. When they would be supported by my hands, my hands would be under their bellies and the middle of their thighs.
They gave up after 15 minutes or so each, and went back to their group.
Later on, I was under the floating dock fixing stuff and I was there for at least an hour. At one points that group of girls were sitting on the dock within earshot from me. A girl asked the other two how was the experience of "learning to swim" was.
The two girls expressed disappointment and it turned out that they were hoping to get groped by me. They described me with something similar to 'lame' and 'coward' and that my looks were deceiving. I was fairly tall, muscular from handling the physical work and swimming, and was definitely tanned and later in life found out that women found me quite attractive. The two girls said that I "amounted to nothing".
So from that day on, anytime girls asked for lessons or anything like that, I made sure to grope them. Instead of having my hands supporting their bellies and their thighs, I made sure that my hands were under their breast and pussies. I have never had one get off my arm or complain. They would blush and smile and continue on with the lesson. It happened tens of times.
Later on when I migrated to the west, in relationships, multiple women expressed one important feeling. They wanted a strong man that took what he wanted without asking permission. To a significant majority of the women that I dated, I was told, sometimes straight out and sometimes as hints that they were turned on by my action. They wanted to be taken. Four separate women explicitly said that their biggest turn on is when "You come in, flip me over and stick it in." One of them was "Come, push me down and stick it in my ass."
The consent rules that they now have in the west taught in academia serve nothing more than to dampen the sex life of their targets and frustrate them.
My long experience says that a lot of women want to experience sexual adventures while maintaining plausible deniability.
I've had one female employee give me signals of availability, like long looks into her cleavage, short skirts, light physical touches, etc... If I asked her if she wanted to do something she would always say no. So I learned that she wanted to be manhandled. I would grab her and she would say a very week no, and then participate very enthusiastically after.
Women want to do sexual stuff, but they want to maintain that they're pure, prim, proper, whatever you want to call it. So by 'being taken' they have the self mental justification that they're not slutty or easy.