@oyster50
It seems like when a useful or interesting thread starts, there are about a dozen posts that are germaine to the topic, then it gets off into snide remarks, oneupsmanship and name-calling.
For the vast majority of them I would agree. There has been maybe four or five threads that really pissed me off, but I tend to get over such things fast.
As I've stated elsewhere, I was run down in my youth (as in truck ran over me) due to being a half breed. That has colored some of my responses, but I recognize intellectually my first response has that potential. I try to pause at such times, but I'm not always successful.
Beyond that, very little bothers me much. The name calling I could do without, especially being the subject of it on several occasions. However, when those people have resorted to name calling, it only makes their argument weaker; if they had one to begin with, so that too, gets left by the roadside for me at least.
On the whole, I think this forum is better than most. Though I have noted an element of "burn them at the stake for heresy" slipping in. When it goes full Fahrenheit 451/1984, I'll bail.
As for the thread drift, it's the norm. You may as well try to herd cats that broke into the catnip factory. Just skip around the patties until you find post on solid ground.
Edited for spelling