I'm looking for a story that I'm not even sure is on this site. (If not, it's either on NoblePath or FirewoodInfinite, not another porn site.)
The thing that stands out in my mind is that the protagonist has this saying that comes out pretty much once a chapter: "You can either get over it, or die mad." They use it on other people, on themselves, whatever.
I asked the Duck, but all I got was a video of a Steve Harvey sermon/lecture/something that I wasn't willing to listen to (since it didn't seem likely to help find the story).