Everyone says, if you've got an idea, just write it yourself!
So I made a start. And got stuck pretty quick. I want to imagine living this life but the concept is to have the female lead actually figure out what she will and won't do... kind of like topping from the bottom but in a way that there are clear, acceptable rules and restrictions not merely agreed to by the sub, but actually suggested by them.
I follow rules and I can ensure rules are followed as long as everyone involved is clear what the rules and consequences are. A woman says, "I'll do this and if I don't, it's okay for you to spank me. It'll make me think twice before doing it again, since I was the one that made the rule. I just find it easy to make rules and then break them 5 minutes later, so I need someone who will call me to the mat on my fuckups.
Since I'd create rules then accept being made to follow them for the right woman and incentive, why wouldn't a woman do it for the right incentive too? Maybe women just don't think like guys and this is high fantasy, thinking women have that ability.
Comments would certainly be welcomed.