I was between my second and third wife, going on blind dates with women I found on the various dating sites. I found Anita on one of the tamer sites. She was an African-American female, and I had not ever dated a black woman. I made contact by sending her an email. She wrote back that she was new in town and did not know many people. I said I could help out with the local area. So we exchanged text messages for a while to get to know each other.
In one of the messages, I mentioned that I go for walks in the local area. I asked if she would like to join me.
She said, "Why not."
We agreed to meet in the parking lot of a department store nearby. I told her, I was walking and it would take me about 10 minutes to get there. She told me what kind of car she drove and she would meet me there. So we signed off and prepared for the blind date.
I dressed in a t-shirt, with some logo on it, with blue jeans, gray sweat socks, and cross-trainer shoes. I do a lot of walking, and have found that it does not matter what you wear. So I wore my standard outfit. I wore no underwear, as I find them constricting, especially when it gets hard.
I found her car parked far from the store entrance. It was easy to find. As I approached, she got out of the car. Anita was wearing a dark business suit with white low socks, and walking shoes. She took off the coat and threw it into the car. A white blouse was under the suit coat, with a plain white bra. The kind women wear for comfort, not style. It had short sleeves. She was stunning as she came towards me, with her black skin contrasting the white blouse.
I was 5 foot 8 inches tall, weighed about 220 pounds. I have a balding set of salt and pepper hair, cut very short for easy cleanup. I have gray bread, about a half of inch in length. I was wearing a small set of wire framed glasses. I was well muscled, but had a gut on me, from my many years of sitting on my ass. Think of me as your average white middle-aged male. I had no tattoos or piercings. My ancestry consisted of German, Irish and Cherokee Indian.
Anita was about 5 foot 4 inches tall, and weighs about 135 pounds. She had long black hair, flowing down her back, indicating that she was of mixed race. Her eyes were black and she wore little in the way of makeup. She walked with the confidence of a successful woman. She came up to me, with her hand out to shake hands.
I said, "Let's go".
We started walking and talking, I was headed for a secluded baseball field, nearby, where we could have some privacy. There were picnic tables with trees, in a hollow next to the field and the only lights were the street lights on the other side of the baseball diamond. There was also a single tennis ball court. There were lights to play ball at night, but were turned off at the moment.