"Favourite Authors Lists"
Before we get too far down this road, let's make sure we're talking about the same thing.
When you go to the story page for an Author under their name are a number of links, only the ones they use show. If they use them all you'll see four links:
Email - Blog - Profile - Favorites
Click on the Favorites link and it takes you to the list of stories they've listed as their favorites. This is the list I think you want to look at, for the authors who've listed your story on theirs.
Now, if you follow the links i listed earlier to look at your story stats page you have a page showing a bunch of stats on your stories. I'll amend that earlier reply to clarify a few points in a moment.
On the stats page the second column from the right is titled AF and has some numbers in it beside your stories or a dash. Whatever the number shows is the number of other authors who've listed that story of yours as a favorite of theirs. Click on the number to go to a page that lists all the authors who have done that, then you can click on the name of an author to go and look at his Favorites list, from that you can then follow the obvious links back to their story page.
Edit to add: I think I got it all in now.